Some anger started creeping up this week. It was over the discussion on fulfilling each other’s needs going forward. I started to get defensive in the session… Read more “Betrayal is Bullshit”
The excitement of an affair
One of the plagues of infidelity, for the betrayed partner, is the fact that you will never know the secrets of the affair. I imagine the excitement,… Read more “The excitement of an affair”
Window of Opportunity
At some point in the midst of grief and healing, a decision has to be made. That window of opportunity opens and you can feel it, the… Read more “Window of Opportunity”
When He Tries
The other day my husband said that he was going to get the Five Love Languages book by Gary D. Chapman. My feeling was that he wanted… Read more “When He Tries”
Holidays
Christmas is nearing. I see the lights up around me. The stores filled with presents. The carols on the radio. But the warmth of the season is… Read more “Holidays”
Rough edges
Sometimes it seems like the world is all rough edges. There is no tenderness and you must push through and fight the battles even when you don’t… Read more “Rough edges”
Setting My Boundaries
This week my therapy work was on understanding how to set boundaries and balancing that with vulnerability. There can be no real intimacy without vulnerability. So how… Read more “Setting My Boundaries”
