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    One year since D-Day

    It’s been a year since d-day. In this last year, I’ve wallowed in the depths of despair, I’ve laid in the fetal position on the floor not… Read more “One year since D-Day”

    August 26, 2017August 26, 2017 by thataffair

    Betrayal is Bullshit

    Some anger started creeping up this week. It was over the discussion on fulfilling each other’s needs going forward. I started to get defensive in the session… Read more “Betrayal is Bullshit”

    February 24, 2017 by thataffair

    The excitement of an affair

    One of the plagues of infidelity, for the betrayed partner, is the fact that you will never know the secrets of the affair. I imagine the excitement,… Read more “The excitement of an affair”

    January 26, 2017 by thataffair

    Window of Opportunity

    At some point in the midst of grief and healing, a decision has to be made. That window of opportunity opens and you can feel it, the… Read more “Window of Opportunity”

    January 10, 2017January 10, 2017 by thataffair

    When He Tries

    The other day my husband said that he was going to get the Five Love Languages book by Gary D. Chapman. My feeling was that he wanted… Read more “When He Tries”

    December 7, 2016 by thataffair

    Holidays

    Christmas is nearing. I see the lights up around me. The stores filled with presents. The carols on the radio. But the warmth of the season is… Read more “Holidays”

    December 4, 2016 by thataffair

    Rough edges

    Sometimes it seems like the world is all rough edges. There is no tenderness and you must push through and fight the battles even when you don’t… Read more “Rough edges”

    November 23, 2016 by thataffair

    Setting My Boundaries

    This week my therapy work was on understanding how to set boundaries and balancing that with vulnerability. There can be no real intimacy without vulnerability. So how… Read more “Setting My Boundaries”

    November 12, 2016 by thataffair

    Couples Counseling Day 1

    The saying goes, ‘Don’t just love with a whole heart, but love with a heart that is whole.’ It was very clear to me today just how… Read more “Couples Counseling Day 1”

    November 1, 2016November 1, 2016 by thataffair

    The End is Nigh

    The intent of writing our ‘Needs that must be fulfilled’ was grounded in hope, love and honesty. The reality is much different. We are drifting, each into… Read more “The End is Nigh”

    October 27, 2016 by thataffair

    Meeting Our Needs 2

    Last night my husband and I sat with our journals and went through our needs – physical, emotional, intimacy, and marriage deal-breakers. I was expecting some zingers,… Read more “Meeting Our Needs 2”

    October 24, 2016October 24, 2016 by thataffair

    Meeting our Needs

    It’s been two months since my foundation collapsed.  Since I found out our wedding vows were broken. Two months since – For better or for worse, Till… Read more “Meeting our Needs”

    October 23, 2016October 23, 2016 by thataffair

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